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FamilyWe have thirty years of experience in family and relationship therapy. We teach healthy parenting skills especially with difficult adolescents and young adults. We help families deal with addiction as well as depression and anxiety that affect the family system
INEFFECTIVE AUTHORITARIAN PARENTING STYLES
| Authoritarian Parenting Style | Results A Child Feels |
|---|---|
| Ordering, directing, commanding | Controlled, powerless, helpless, discouraged, incompetent, resentful, disrespected, rebellious |
| Warning, admonishing, threatening, forcing | Afraid, threatened, forced, discouraged, resentful, insecure, disrespected, rebellious |
| Exhorting, moralizing, preaching | Preached to, bad, wrong, guilty, inferior, inadequate, unworthy |
| Advising, suggesting, solving | Controlled, incompetent, underestimated, un-trusted |
| Lecturing, “Dr. Spock-ing” | Judged, criticized, unaccepted, resentful, inferior |
| Invalidated, misunderstood, alone, tuned-out, uncared for | Labeled, misunderstood, different, unaccepted |
| Name-calling, labeling, ridiculing, mocking | Ridiculed, mocked, offended, insulted, disrespected |
| Shaming, blaming, judging, criticizing, disagreeing | Shamed, blamed, guilty, bad, inadequate, insecure, defensive |
| “Praising,” “agreeing” | Confused, skeptical, resentful, offended, insulted |
| “Reassuring,” sympathizing, “consoling,” “supporting” | Minimized, weak, helpless, victimized, invalidated, disrespected, discounted |
| Interrogating | Probed, questioned, interrogated, un-trusted, doubted, tested, attacked, defensive |
| Withdrawing, “trusting” | Misunderstood, unimportant, invalidated, confused, unsupported |
| Distracting, humoring, diverting | Distracted, diverted, invalidated, repressed, denied, minimized, disrespected, confused |
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Dr. Paul Standal
Lindsey Woodburn
Lindsey Woodburn
Psychological Assistant
Psychological Assistant